Assalam o ALikom! I want to ask...i am very sensitive person little harsh or rude attitude makes me very upset and i usually dont able to speak to any one that i use to get hurt very fast :( And when ever...

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Assalam o ALikom!

I want to ask...i am very sensitive person little harsh or rude attitude makes me very upset and i usually dont able to speak to any one that i use to get hurt very fast :(
And when ever i am able to express that i felt bad i use bring all the previous matters on which i was not able to talk abt.. and that time my anger goes to extreme.
this make others think that i am the most worst person.. I actually am the most positive thinker ...one more thing is i am in Naikkah and before my Rukasati i want to change my this habbit... i always try to control to my anger but once i express it i just burst out. by that my parents, especially got hurt can any one help me please what should i do. But i never used abusing or bad languging in anger Allah ke shuker. One thing more that i never poke in others matter and like to help and always have given good advices.
i just want to remove this bad thing from me...So
how should i avoid unnecessary taunts ? as these are he majin cause for my extreme anger.
i want guide according to Islam saying
Please help!

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lemski185

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Strap a bomb around your chest. somehow you people know exactly what to do next.

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Puckish

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Very droll !

Over here, Muslims know how to manage a shop, or how to drive a taxi;
many know how to be surgeons, doctors, scientists, teachers, professors, lawyers, accountants, designers etc ...
I don't know whether they do all these activities with a bomb strapped around their waists ! - for what purpose ? !

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Puckish

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For the health of your Mind and Spirit you need to have a Healthy body : Plenty of exercise and fresh air ; regular meals and regular sleep; eat plenty of fruit and vegetables ; live your life thinking of Others > give a little help to neighbours > the old Lady who would love to GO OUT shopping, or to the park with a little help from you. If that neighbour is not Muslim , so much the better , because you will be showing people the good side of Islam, to counter all the Negative publicity about Islam.

Make yourself happy and fulfilled by making Other People happy and fulfilled. For example , have you any young nieces or nephews who would enjoy having you read a Bedtime Story to them ? The Imagination and fun in the stories will expand their minds - and they will become useful members of Society in the future.

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Arfatzafar

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Allah ke naam se shru-
wa alaikum asslam.
Dear sister,
u r a very nice person. Soft n tender heart u hv who don't want to hurt the feelings of others, moreover, u respect all. This is the main reason as u want the same treatment fm others as well.
Look v cant change others n v shud accept it that this world will not go as per our thinking. But when v dont understand it,sometimes v get short tempered n begin to exasperate when somthing goes against us. Now c a few tips-
1 let her/him be sent fm the spot or u urself go.
2 Drink the water.
3 Recite Ta'awwuz.
4 Do the ablution n better pray the namaz
5 If u r standing,sit or sitting then lie on bed.
6 let her/him be assumed a patient n patients r forgiven.
7 make urself a strong person n kill the anger before it kills u.

Either of the abovesaid may be helpful. Just try.

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