Does anyone observe and agree that every SATSANGI loves other SATSANGIS much much more than anyone else, even his family, kids, job as also parents, in absence of any ongoing thought process about their GURU/MASTER’s teachings in this regards?
1. If so, what are the reasons for such a different and biased behavior apart from their donations to the extent of more than 10% of their income, in addition to their spending more than 10% of their time for meditation apart from spending more time for KAAR SEWA or other activities of RSSB?
2. If not, what are their different views in this regard?

3. At the same time while SATSANGIS talk about KAAR SEWA at SATSANG centers, do they also believe and keep this gesture in view, while at home, by contributing their services in day to day duties as also in kitchen if their spouce is also employed in addition to looking after their kids apart from their duty in job, being the source of their bread and butter in addition to source of donations for RSSB? Do they also have and spare time for service to their old parents?

In one of SATSANGS, I heard one RSSB speaker saying that in case we keep loving kids and family during the daytime, we are bound to see them in our dreams also instead of our GURU. So we should always keep love for GURUJI in our thought process instead of kids and family, if we want to see him in our dreams for seeking his blessings.

As such this question needs to be answered by searching every SATSANGI's soul from within.

I agree with your above stated views and add few more lines.
On one side we state that we are in 21st Century and RSSB followers and we should not believe in baham etc., should not belive in Murty Puja and should take naam daan. We state all exisitng rituals in sanatan dharam are baseless and should not be followed.But on other side we also make few statements for which also we do not have any supporting evidnece. Like we believe that every one is getting the pain because of his karma. The period between birth and death is kaal chakra and when we will get the shelter of Guru we will get moksha.
Has any one verified these statements of Guru. NO because we belive that what ever Guru is stating is correct and all other thing done by other are wrong.
Means all of the Hindus who goes to haridwar and take bath in Holy Ganga, the people who take fast on auspicious day and people who goes for tirath, all are wrong.
These feelings of RSSB followers are clearly displayed in their activities and behaviour.
They are unable to understand themselves that what is expected from them.
It is so because like in a college, there are different teachers for different classes which taught them as per their existing knowledge, but here for RSSB we are getting knowledge from our guru irrespective of our understanding. He is providing information on life, death and bhakti. But since around 90% of us just go to get relief from our pain, we just think that he is the one who can get us relieved from our pain, so do what ever he said.
If he says do seva, we do, donate 10% of income we donate, take name we take and so on.
We follow his advise and think that our pain will reduce, nearly pain of 50% is reduced because it has to be as per destiny, they praise for guru and stay with RSSB and other wait for few more years and after that few more person get reduction in their pain and follow and other start search for new guru.
No one understand that when guru himself state that you have to bear all pain as per your karma, so no one can eliminate it. We should remember guru beacuse it will give us stength for facing the pain.
But it is not that when ever we feel pain we start remember guru. We should perform our each and every duty first in family and then for others and while performing those duties we should remember him, that is the goal.
It is not every time face pain, start writing letter to guru. Except god no one in this earth planet can do anything is a fact acknowledged by sooner or late by every saint.
Even guru himself has got knowledge with the blessing of GOD himself and not any where else.