Radha Swami to everone,

I am planning to get married to a person i love from last 3 years. As we are different religion/Caste, earlier his parents were not ready. It took us 3 years so that they could finally say Yes. They believe in Kundli and as per his Kundli there is only one date for marrige that is 30th Nov. Fortunately or Unfortunately Babaji will be visiting Delhi during that time. Now my parents has asked for new date for which they are not agreeing. Please suggest shall i forget this person or i should do something?

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It appears that marriage between a Radha Soami Satsangi with some non-satsangi is under consideration, which needs to be avoided due to non-compatibility factor alone.

How old r u ? 5..

After having known each other for last three years, another SATSANGI is found raising a doubt now, as if one should prefer to attend a SATSANG or hold marriage in view of the fact that marriage is being scheduled on a day when BABA ji is to hold SATSANG in DELHI.

See the priority of a SATSANG over and above family matters as if each day’s SATSANG has some fixed target of achieving some spiritual progress. Could such a marriage have any longevity or needs to be given a final happy ending at this kind of beginning, when more such occasions are bound to occur in life having similar clashes with the SATSANG schedules over requirements for job or that of family matters relating to kids’/parents’ care etc. So, wisdom lies in ignoring the marriage proposal at this stage itself without any regrets. Even, time required for SEWA, meditation as also funds to be spared for mandatory donations to RSSB, are additional unseen priorities to cause more pains at later stage.

In fact, any SATSANGI should not marry any non-SATSANGI due to obvious reasons.

You should ask them to change the date. OR

is it necessary to attend the satsang, you can also attend other satsang also.babaji is always with us, don't thing that if you will not attend the satsang during there visit, he will not bless you.

but one thing I am not able to understand that for one satsang you have doubt & you are trying to reject them.??

HI,

No i dont want to reject him. The issue is that my parents doesnt want to leave their sewa during that visit and as per them if we plan wedding for same day it will not be good. I cannot leave my parents and cannot force them to leave sewa or satsang. i cannot do much, just wait and watch.

Court marriage?

SATSANGIS and compromise with human values? No, never!

These are not the teachings of BABAJI but are part of misgivings spread alaround by some of RSSB devotees at such a large scale. This all confirms nothing but false claims of outer progress linked with inner progress, in spirituality. It does, however, confirm duality as also detachment alone.

There is an urgent need to take some preventive steps to curb all, what is taking a bad shape among RSSB followers.

Cool story bro. u must join church of the churchless. There are enough goons like u there.

This is impressive, that your parent doesnt want to leave their sewa during there visit. but if your parents think like " if we plan wedding for same day it will not be good", what good ?? YOUR PARENTS THINK THAT BABAJI WILL CURSE YOU.or some bad thing will happen. if they think so, dear nothing bad is going to be happened.ok. no need to worry.

all the best....!!!!!!!!!

Cool! Yes! All the so called goons of church of the churchless left RSSB, after having spent more than three decades in RSSB and having got published their valuable books through RSSB, suddenly became goons now, because of same reasons only.

So, instead of considering taking some remedial steps to curb such misgivings, lot of time is being wasted on spoiling the whole philosophy of RSSB, may be due to some vested interests.

Thanks Everyone for your replies. I know that nothing can be changed now because his parents are very Adamant. It took us 2 years for getting their approval. Now they don't want to change.

Anyways, i believe in destiny. IF this is written we cannot change that. I just wanted to share my feelings and rest everything depends on God.

Thanks again for your valuable time.

Radha swami again.

Take care.

Hi

there was a ques regarding this in Ques ans session in beas

Boy : baba g, agar sunday ko marriage ho to satsang attend kren ya marraige
( baba g, if we have a marraige on sunday, then what we should attend: marriage or satsang)

Baba g : beta, depend krta hai shaadi kiski hai, agar apni shaddi hai to shaadi hi attend krni padegi, biwi to wait kregi nhi, satsang to next sunday bhi sun lega, magar biwi ko wait krvai to fir vo wait krvayegi hmeshsa

( Son, it depends it is going to be whose marraige, if it it your marriage , then u have to attend, wifw is not going to wait, u can attend satsang next week also, but if u'll make ur wife to wait, then she will make u wait all time)

baba g ( haste hue) : beta ye to bta de shaddi hai kiski?
baba g ( smiling asked) :son, whose marraige is that ?

boy : g meri hai
boy : its mine

Boy : baba g meri shaadi so an so date( Sunday - bhandara) ko hai , aap jrur ana
Boy : baba g, my marraige on so an so date. Please visit

Baba g ( haste hue): beta kyun mujhe apni barbaadi mein shamil krta hai


Another question asked by girl

girl : baba g, i belong to radha swami family and please in future marry me in radha swami family

baba g : beta, who says that all the satsangis are good persons, you should ask for good people not satsangi or non satsangi, only good people will keep you happy

baba g never ask to look for castism or satsangi non satsangi , they ask to look for good people

It was intersting,

that's why I have replied her in above posts
"is it necessary to attend the satsang, you can also attend other satsang also."

Thank you so much for this. I wish maine ye problem pehle share kiya hota. than i might be able to explain to my parents. Anyways, i know one thing babaji jo karte hai achche ke liye karte hai and who knows what happen next.

Thanks again

I know one thing babaji jo karte hai achche ke liye karte hai and who knows what happen next.

badi jaldi samajh aa gai dear,, hehehehehe

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Samajh nahi hoti to ya to ghar pe ladai kar rahi hoti ya mandiro or gurdware me mannate mang rahi hoti.

I just saw this forum and i thought i should share with everyone. although, its personal but i dont mind sharing with satsangi friends.

Ya sure dear ,you can sahre any thing.
I was just kidding, plz don't mind.
I am sure , jab apne yeh mera post read kiya hoga, apko ko bhi thodi si hassi aai hogi.

all the best.

:) no no, dont worry i wont mind.


take care.