Benjamin Spock
Overview
Benjamin McLane Spock was an American
United States
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  pediatrician
Pediatrics
Pediatrics or paediatrics is the branch of medicine that deals with the medical care of infants, children, and adolescents. A medical practitioner who specializes in this area is known as a pediatrician or paediatrician...

 whose book Baby and Child Care
The Common Sense Book of Baby and Child Care
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, published in 1946, is one of the biggest best-sellers of all time. Its message to mothers is that "you know more than you think you do."

Spock was the first pediatrician to study psychoanalysis
Psychoanalysis
Psychoanalysis is a psychological theory developed in the late 19th and early 20th centuries by Austrian neurologist Sigmund Freud. Psychoanalysis has expanded, been criticized and developed in different directions, mostly by some of Freud's former students, such as Alfred Adler and Carl Gustav...

 to try to understand children's needs and family dynamics. His ideas about childcare influenced several generations of parents to be more flexible and affectionate with their children, and to treat them as individuals.
Quotations

I really learned it all from mothers.

Time magazine (8 April 1985)

I've come to the realization that a lot of our problems are because of a dearth of spiritual values.

Associated Press interview (1992)

People have said, "You've turned your back on pediatrics." I said, "No. It took me until I was in my 60s to realize that politics was a part of pediatrics."

Associated Press interview (1992)

I would say that the surest measure of a man's or a woman's maturity is the harmony, style, joy, and dignity he creates in his marriage, and the pleasure and inspiration he provides for his spouse.

Quoted in Older & Wiser Edited by G. B. Dianda and B. J. Hofmayer (1995) Quotations from Dr. Spock's Baby and Child Care first published in 1945, with many updated editions since.

You know more than you think you do.

First sentence. This is printed beneath the heading "Trust Yourself" , and thus is often quoted as "Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do. "

Don't take too seriously all that the neighbors say. Don't be overawed by what the experts say. Don't be afraid to trust your own common sense.

The more people have studied different methods of bringing up children the more they have come to the conclusion that what good mothers and fathers instinctively feel like doing for their babies is the best after all. All parents do their best job when they have a natural, easy confidence in themselves. Better to make a few mistakes from being natural than to try to do everything letter-perfect out of a feeling of worry.

The fact is that child rearing is a long, hard job, the rewards are not always immediately obvious, the work is undervalued, and parents are just as human and almost as vulnerable as their children.

There are only two things a child will share willingly— communicable diseases and his mother's age.

In automobile terms, the child supplies the power but the parents have to do the steering.

 
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