Many people would rather be referred to as a person with a disability instead of handicapped. "Cerebral Palsy: A Guide for Care" at the University of Delaware
offers the following guidelines:
An individual may also qualify as disabled if he/she has had an impairment in the past or is seen as disabled based on a personal or group standard
or norm
.
But pain... seems to me an insufficient reason not to embrace life. Being dead is quite painless. Pain, like time, is going to come on regardless. Question is, what glorious moments can you win from life in addition to the pain?
Adversity does teach who your real friends are.
The soul would have no rainbow if the eyes had no tears.
We must embrace pain and burn it as fuel for our journey.
I am neither an optimist nor pessimist, but a possibilist.
A positive attitude might not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort. --Herm Albright
Some people are always grumbling because roses have thorns; I am thankful that thorns have roses.
We tend to forget that happiness doesn't come as a result of getting something we don't have, but rather of recognizing and appreciating what we do have.
I am not sick. I am broken. But I am happy as long as I can paint.
Not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed until it is faced.