Promise ring
Encyclopedia
A pre-engagement ring is a ring
given to a romantic partner
to signify a commitment to a monogamous relationship
, often as a precursor to an engagement ring
. Promise rings can be worn on any finger, but those symbolizing pre-engagement are generally worn on the left ring finger
; sometimes, the left middle finger
or right ring finger is used instead to prevent confusion with an actual engagement ring.
During Shakespeare’s time, poesy rings were popular among young couples. Each band was engraved with romantic sayings such as “vous et nul autres” (you and no others) or “a ma vie de coeur entier” (my whole heart for my whole life), binding the lover’s words to the beloved’s body.
During the 20th century, in some instances women would offer men's promise rings to their man because, at the time, he was unable to commission to be wed. It was generally a surprise offering and was something the man could accept or deny. Tradition generally holds that these rings were given by younger couples. This was usually the case because it was normal for the young couple not to have a wealth position that would allow for marriage and children.
Ring (jewellery)
A finger ring is a circular band worn as a type of ornamental jewelry around a finger; it is the most common current meaning of the word ring. Other types of metal bands worn as ornaments are also called rings, such as arm rings and neck rings....
given to a romantic partner
Significant other
Significant other is colloquially used as a gender-blind term for a person's partner in an intimate relationship without disclosing or presuming anything about marital status, relationship status, or sexual orientation, as it is vague enough to avoid offense by using a term that an individual...
to signify a commitment to a monogamous relationship
Monogamy
Monogamy /Gr. μονός+γάμος - one+marriage/ a form of marriage in which an individual has only one spouse at any one time. In current usage monogamy often refers to having one sexual partner irrespective of marriage or reproduction...
, often as a precursor to an engagement ring
Engagement ring
An engagement ring is a ring indicating that the person wearing it is engaged to be married, especially in Western cultures. In the United Kingdom, Ireland and North America, engagement rings are traditionally worn only by women, and rings can feature diamonds or other gemstones. In other cultures...
. Promise rings can be worn on any finger, but those symbolizing pre-engagement are generally worn on the left ring finger
Ring finger
The ring finger is the fourth digit of the human hand, and the second most ulnar finger, located between the middle finger and the little finger. It is also called digitus medicinalis, the fourth finger, digitus annularis, digitus quartus, or digitus IV in anatomy.- Etymology :According to László A...
; sometimes, the left middle finger
Middle finger
The middle finger or long finger is the third digit of the human hand, located between the index finger and the ring finger. It is usually the longest finger...
or right ring finger is used instead to prevent confusion with an actual engagement ring.
History
Promise rings allegedly date back to the 16th century. One illustration , dating from 1576, might be showing a promise ring being given, demonstrating that the tradition could have existed at that early date. In those days, when a man could not afford to get married, he would often give his intended bride a promise ring as a placeholder until marriage became possible.During Shakespeare’s time, poesy rings were popular among young couples. Each band was engraved with romantic sayings such as “vous et nul autres” (you and no others) or “a ma vie de coeur entier” (my whole heart for my whole life), binding the lover’s words to the beloved’s body.
During the 20th century, in some instances women would offer men's promise rings to their man because, at the time, he was unable to commission to be wed. It was generally a surprise offering and was something the man could accept or deny. Tradition generally holds that these rings were given by younger couples. This was usually the case because it was normal for the young couple not to have a wealth position that would allow for marriage and children.